Not Your Fault — cross it out
Not Your Fault
You were never the problem. Let me show you who is.

“It was my fault.”

✎Click or drag across the sentence to cross it out

There. You’re the 12,483rd woman to cross it out. Not one of you was wrong.

Done. Cole is writing your first letter.
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One study and one small fix, every weekday morning. Free.

Cole, the author of Not Your Fault, with his dog

I’m Cole. I’m not a doctor, and I’ll never pretend to be. I just have the one thing your doctor doesn’t: time to read the studies. Every letter names its sources, so you can check my work.

Not medical advice. Cole reads the research. He’s not a doctor, and he’ll be the first to tell you. Sources are named in every letter so you can check his work.

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